8.18.2024

Oh Canada - PA to Digby

We finished out a great four weeks, spent mostly in Canada. We spent the first few days visiting with friends in the Poconos. They live in California but have family in Philadelphia so eastern Pennsylvania is often a place we meet up. Those first few days were HOT. Luckily, we have air conditioning in our trailer and we had booked a site with 30 amp hookups. There was a pool at the campground, along with a lot of other kid-friendly attractions. While Leah is one of my best friends, our kids aren't very close and it always feels like a bit of a gamble to see how they'll get along. But of course, they found plenty of fun things to do together, and we ended that portion of our trip with our traditional 2-4-6-8 group cheer and a reflection of our favorite things. Common answers were smores and star gazing. The downside of this location was that it was freaking expensive! Later I learned that there was a NASCAR event in the area, which drove up the prices. Also the bug bites were epic. 


After that we headed up through New England, stopping at two Harvest Host sites. Neither had hook ups, but luckily evening storms cooled things off a little bit, and we spent most of each day driving with AC on. The first Harvest Host was in the driveway of a homeschooling family! The second was in a church parking lot and had a beautiful view of a field of wildflowers. Both were very quiet all night. 

The next day we stopped at a Walmart in Bangor to pick up some supplies and were soon at the border between Maine and Canada. Our vehicle was flagged for a search and we sat at the border for a good hour. Once we got going again we realized we were entering a new time zone and had lost yet another hour. The temperature also started dropping, and fog rolled in from the Bay of Fundy. We were very close to the water, but couldn't see a thing. That night we pulled into a county park that had a campground in Saint John, New Brunswick. We spent the afternoon hiking around the park (the trail system was extensive) and taking hot showers (as it had been three days since we had hookups). 

The next day we didn't have to be at the ferry dock until the afternoon so M went out to run and the kids and I took a hike. Rockwood Park is really a hidden gem and worth a stop. The campground wasn't much more than a gravel lot, but the park itself had several picturesque lakes, an arboretum with lots of signage, swimming beaches and an activity center with fusball and board games. The extensive system of mountain biking/hiking trails is really the park's best asset. It is right in the city of Saint John and just a 10 minute drive to ferry. On the way to the ferry we stopped to the see the Reversing Falls, one of many rivers along the Bay of Fundy that flows backwards with the tides. We loved watching the ducks play in the rapids, and were delighted spot some harbor seals swimming. 

The ferry was a lot of fun. It's very orderly, as are many things in Canada. You check in and they measure your length, and then put you in a lane. When the ferry pulls up, you get to watch all the cars and people unload and then you drive on, lane by lane. The crew is very polite but make sure you get as close as possible to the vehicle in front of you. We transferred our intrepid travel cats into the trailer with some food and water, and went upstairs to the passenger area. Two movie theaters, several snack bar/restaurant areas, and a lot of seating both inside and outside made the two hour trip fly by. We got some snacks and drinks, but spent most of the time sitting gone the deck looking at the bay. It was a beautiful, sunny day, and we were enjoying not being hot and sweaty, as we had been on most of the trip. 

When we pulled off the ferry, we were in Digby, Nova Scotia. We camped at the most adorable little campground that had a communal fire pit, full hookups and a coin laundry. The weather was sunny and breezy, but not too hot. The campground was right on a bike path so we could walk into town for dinner. We had lobster, scallops and fish and chips at a restaurant with a view of the water. We were getting used to reading the temperature in Celsius and following the speed limit to the kilometer and keeping track of our loonies for the laundry. There were still quite a few other Americans around and it wasn't too different yet. The biggest change since we had entered Maine was the water. There's water everywhere, rivers and lakes and inlets from the oceans. Every time we crested a hill or came around a corner there was more or different water in front of us. 

The next morning we woke up very early to head to our whale watching tour. If whale watching itself were not exciting enough, we also had plans to meet up with our former next door neighbors, who moved to Canada about the time we moved out of our house. They had never done whale watching either, so we booked tickets on the same cruise. 

That is a tale for another day.

7.01.2024

Begin Again

As July kicks off, I am drafting objectives and preparing the required paperwork to declare my intent to homeschool our kids for another year. It's surprisingly emotional for me. Laurel considered a lot of different brick and mortar and online options and is opting to chart her own DIY path through high school. I have every confidence in her ability to create a rich and fulfilling secondary experience for herself. But still, this is starting to feel like a real commitment. (I don't recall signing up to homeschool f o r e v e r.) Last year I made daily requirements...do something from Brave Writer, some math practice, some physical movement, and read and respond to some nonfiction for Social Studies/Science. However, we didn't set aside any time during the day that was for "school," and we tracked our progress more by progression towards goals than butts-in-seats, which is how the state has you do it.  We didn't even really call it school. (Learning is Life, Life is Learning, trying out that unschool-y vibe.)


This year, I'm going to make some more clear divisions around school/work time. In the past, it has been easier to do the same thing with all three kids, merrily moving through our day listening to podcasts and visiting museums, turning on a documentary when we had a question or looking for books at the library. The lines between "school" and "life" were basically nonexistent. This is definitely a great model for kids up to 11 or so, and I think I'd like to preserve this vibe for Max for the next few years. But the older two are getting into projects and pursuits that require a lot more concentrated effort, use of the computer, or time to read and write independently. Plus it was hard to know when it was time to rest if we didn't know when we were at work. We are about to head out on a month long road trip to visit the Maritimes but when we get back, I will schedule out some hours each day

Even if we have a structured schedule, I will remain highly committed to our learner-led vibes. The kids (and M and I!) exercise our freedom to pursue what strikes our fancy, whenever possible. I love our routine of choosing a few big things to work on at the beginning of our year in July, and then revisiting those intentions each month when we plan out what skills we will focus on learning, field trips, classes, documentaries, books, etc. that we will focus on for the month. It is never lost on me what a joy learning is in our household.

So, we begin again, picking up new things to try on and see if they fit, discarding what we are done with. I can't wait to see how this school year unfolds. 

5.15.2024

Five Years

Wow, we just finished our fifth year of homeschooling! To celebrate I baked a cake. In the past, we have had Cake for Breakfast on the last day of school, made even more celebratory by inviting neighbors to share it with us on our porch, but mornings are often pretty slow around here, so this was more of a Cake for Lunch situation. Also, after living in our apartment for over a year, we have yet to even know the names of our direct neighbors. I baked a lemon bundt cake that had three whole lemons in it, loads of butter, and a sweet glaze that soaked in and made the cake even better the next day. We met with some new evaluators this year and both of them really set the tone of celebrating the learning for the year.

One question that came up frequently this year was "Does this count?" meaning, can we log it for the 180 day requirement as outlined in the Pennsylvania law. And what does count? In our house, the kids take an active role in deciding what they want to learn and how, and logging it and reflecting upon it. This cycle of setting intentions, working on projects, and then stopping to review progress around the 3rd week of the month has become an important and enjoyable process for us. Sometimes we get to that review time and actually haven't made it very far on a goal or intention. That's when we can decide if we actually just need more time, or more resources, or perhaps some kind of direct instruction or class or space in order to move forward. Maybe we have everything we need and just haven't gotten motivated enough to take action. Maybe we did take action but it's all going to take a LOT longer than we expected and we need more time. Or maybe it's not that important anymore and we just want to drop it. 

In any case, from watching my kids tell the story of their year to the evaluators, it was clear to me that much progress has been made, many lessons learned, new interests have been sparked and I'm ready to tackle year 6 of homeschooling with enthusiasm.

Some of our favorite things this year included:
  • Pizza and game night, frequently with guests
  • Outings to the local brew-pub, who have some jazz bands that play regularly
  • Bike rides on the Great Allegheny Passage, reading all the historic marker signs, exploring Carrie Furnace
  • Horse riding lessons, which has also included watching the farrier, assisting with the hay-baling process, feeding and grooming horses, and exploring the trails and plants on the 90+ acres of the farm
  • Lots of co-op classes with interesting titles, meetups with friends at parks, and the launch of a self-directed co-op learning space that is slowing coming together
  • Monthly zoom meetings with aunts and nieces to discuss books from Laurel's curriculum
  • Piano lessons (including first recital for Marko), guitar and ukulele jamming, and experimentation with the trumpet (so loud!)
  • A trip to southern Ohio to go to the Paw Paw festival, visit the caves at Hocking Hills State Park and see the newly designated Hopewell Earthworks UNESCO site
  • Weekly outings with my 2 year old nephew to parks and libraries and lunch with my parents